Who we love or why we love is unique to all of us ,but the fact that we have love is a life saver. If you love this guy dont be shy make it known to him ,if he responds in kind you could have a relationship, if he doesn't you know to move on because this relationship is going nowhere. We cry both for good things and bad things ,crying cleanses us and refreshes us , time is the true equalizer it gives us perspective, it's kinda like we have tears now to get thru each day ,so tomorrow we may understand better where we have been ,
If you love someone or something let it be known , because there is no guarantee that tomorrow you or they will be here to share it ,standing on ceremony and tradition will break your heart alot of times , if you want a date ask him his plans and share yours instead of crying alone, make certain of your heart and then make it known .

It's better to light a single candle than to curse the darkness ,so light the candle ask the guy his intentions for and with you ,nothing ventured is nothing gained , you may find a broken heart but you also may find they were wondering about you , if you sit and wonder and they sit and wonder you both go knowhere,but open a dialog and you have made something possible or let's say is it better to have a little light for along time or to have a whole lot of light for a very short time ? is the glass half empty or half full who really cares when they are thirsty ?

We're you met is irrelevant, the fact you met is the important thing ,and it seems to me you would like more now, so reach out !