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Originally Posted by MickeyCheeky
I'm not sure you're doing the right thing by staying with him.. he looks just as abusive as he was before (and people like this rarely change in a short time).
I'm not sure if you should come back to the other guy though  Did he do something that you found a little unsettling? Something that could make you doubt his love?
This is my opinion, but that whole "leave your husband or you'll lose me" sounded a little... idk. Out of place.
I'm sorry I can't help you more than this  |
That statement sounded out of place to me at first with him as well. Which I told him that it was unsettling to me because it sounded like he was trying to control me like my husband, but then he explained to me why he said it that way and what he meant by it which eased my mind.
According to him, he could no longer stand to see me being physically hurt and figured it would be easier on himself to just back off away from me entirely if I chose to continue being abused.