Recently, my girlfriend and I parted ways after a 4+ year relationship. Initially I was fine because I was still in school and finals had me busy but after being home for a week or two, I have gotten more and more depressed thinking about the relationship.

Originally we agreed to still talk and be friends, and that worked for awhile until she got home and started becoming more distant. It's gotten to the point where this is becoming a problem, I am over effected by her and I need to get over her as soon as possible. A lot of my friends suggested taking me to places like bars or even strip clubs but I am not so sure about it.

How can I regain my confidence to attract other girls and get rid of the troubling thoughts from my ex once and for all?