Hi krazibean,

Maybe you have to establish the rules surrounding e-mail communication with T in session.

If you are sending messages every 2 days maybe she doesn't know when you really need her to call you back.

I don't do email with T. But we do speak on the phone between sessions. However, I have to be clear in my message if I need him to call me and if I am in a crisis or not. Then he knows how urgent my message is and whether I need him to call me right away or not. Sometimes I just need to leave him a message and knowing he heard it gives me comfort.

So, just ask her and I'm sure you two can work this out together.