I'm sorry to hear about all this.
I wish I had some words that would be bring you comfort, but I don't know what to say, except I want you to know, I send you good thoughts for strength,healing and peace within.

PS
I'm happy to hear that you got a peek at the baby, it's an exciting time, if possible, allow yourself to focus on that little babe. You need to realize you and that little baby are most important, and will need to be the only priority, even though others in your world may be in need.
Take care now,
Roe