Bebop - thanks for reminding me to give my husband the benefit of the doubt. Sometimes he doesn't have a clue.

bpdsufferer - thank you for sharing this. I agree that if I felt I could trust my husband, it wouldn't matter what my sister did or didn't do. I think everyone was on our best behavior all week. My husband went in our room to watch tv every night, leaving me and my sister together. That was ok.

But then came the weekend. The problem is that I feel like I'll be portrayed as the paranoid one if I try to confront the situation.

I sincerely want to just not feel this way. Taking Xanax settles the feelings down, but I know I can't keep doing this.

I guess I need to talk to my husband. I have to find a time when he's less likely to feel defensive. Maybe if I ask him to help me with my problem....