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Nov 11, 2016, 06:48 PM
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I don't think you did anything wrong connecting with his friend. I connected with all my ex boyfriend's friends. It was no big deal.
I mean, you're his friend too, so shouldn't he want you to meet his other friends and be friends with them? Just seems weird that he wouldn't have been okay with that.
I think you need to prepare yourself for the idea that he may not want to fight for this relationship. He may be willing to give it another try, but it sounds like he is very unhappy in the relationship. He feels like you two are always fighting...4 months out of 20 is 20 percent of the time. That's a of time to have spent fighting.
If you two are going to work it out, you need to discuss some boundaries about the things that bother you so you don't end up fighting about them all the time again.
Good luck,
seesaw
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Meds I've tried: Prozac, Zoloft, Celexa, Effexor, Remeron, Elavil, Wellbutrin, Risperidone, Abilify, Prazosin, Paxil, Trazadone, Tramadol, Topomax, Xanax, Propranolol, Valium, Visteril, Vraylar, Selinor, Clonopin, Ambien
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