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Originally Posted by brooke34
If you can actually find the strength to leave, I urge you to do so and not look back. I'm in a similar situation but I finally left not too long ago, only to turn around and go back under the naive belief that he would be different. Trust me, he won't change. He may do things temporarily to make you believe that changes are being made and to make you think there is enough progress on his end to give you hope. Don't fall for it. I know that leaving is the hardest part, but if you can manage that, you'll end up just fine.
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Thanks Brooke34
Yup you are 100% correct.
I have been already to go at least 5 times before and hes always promised me the moon but then completely stuffed up yet again.
I know if I tell him when I am actually going he'll apply even more pressure but I have 2 weeks work 6 hours away booked for xmas week and week after. I have been slowly leaving clothes in my work office. I'm going to let him think I am going away to do the temporary contact but not come back. Bugger him. I've had more than enough.
You too stay strong and find a way to go. Life is to short for this bs