My heart goes out to you, your wife and your entire family. This must be so difficult.

Sometimes the sicker we are, the more we resist medications. I've been there so FEEL for your wife.

But you have got to do what is best for you and your family. Maybe leaving would force your wife's hand and she will accept treatment. Maybe she never will and will decline further with nobody around to help. It's not a pretty picture either way.

I believe in for better or for worse but I've never been on your side of the fence so I make so judgements.

Take care of yourself, your family and try to be as kind as possible to your wife. She really has no clue what is going on. It is very scary to live in her head....I know because I've had some very similar experiences to hers.

Be kind to yourself and I'm so sorry you are in such a position.