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Nov 12, 2016, 02:51 AM
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For what it's worth, I kind of feel like you are catering to this guy's emotions in order to keep him instead of fully feeling your own. It's like you're swallowing your anger and taking his ******** because you don't want to lose him. This business with the female friend is unacceptable, imo. It sounds like your emotions are invalid to him and he ignores how you feel.
I don't mean to tell you how you should feel, but it sounds like you feel guilty for trying to know this friend rather than angry that he is keeping something from you. It makes me wonder about your self-esteem.
Maybe I'm misreading this or laying my own issues into it, but I feel you need some righteous anger.
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Primary Dx: C-PTSD and Severe Chronic Treatment Resistant Major Depressive Disorder
Secondary Dx: Generalized Anxiety Disorder with mild Agoraphobia.
Meds I've tried: Prozac, Zoloft, Celexa, Effexor, Remeron, Elavil, Wellbutrin, Risperidone, Abilify, Prazosin, Paxil, Trazadone, Tramadol, Topomax, Xanax, Propranolol, Valium, Visteril, Vraylar, Selinor, Clonopin, Ambien
Treatments I've done: CBT, DBT, Transcranial Magnetic Stimulation (TMS), Talk therapy, psychotherapy, exercise, diet, sleeping more, sleeping less...
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