Pegasus, I don't think that ignoring someone has to necessarily mean that you are mean, or dont like them, or dont want to be there friend. I think that sometimes it can just mean recognizing that you are having a hard time with dealing with the issues that person is having right now. And it also doesn't have to mean forever. Either way, I don't think you should feel bad that you have to do self care. Its a good thing and I'm proud of you for taking care of you!