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Old Nov 12, 2016, 10:36 AM
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Originally Posted by Foxymama2016 View Post
Yes he will. Those guys are jerks! If that's the response you get it says more about who they are than who you are.Those guys don't want serious relationships if they expect to sleep with every girl they date. Hold on to your virginity. I wish I had. But, I let someone pressure me when I was 18 and lost it. After getting married I felt like I didn't have anything to give my husband. He on the other hand was a virgin when we started dating. There are times he wishes he had waited too, just for the experience of being married first.
I don't understand how these guys are jerks if they respond in most polite and respectful manner rather than leading her on or pressuring. I thought her examples of what men say indicate them to be very considerate and honest while remaining respectful. How is it doing what's right for you is being a "jerk"?
Thanks for this!
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