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Originally Posted by Foxymama2016
I agree. There is someone for everyone. I personally believe what a persons weight is does not matter. I've seen all sorts of couples. What matters is the love they have for themselves and then each other. I'm sure you have qualities you love about you. Everyone's outside appearance changes. What do you have going for you that matters?
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--------response Great thoughts from everyone. Going to a group might get your confidence up and help you make some friends. Friends last longer than many so called relationships. What interests you? The website Meetups allows you to get together with people who have common interests. Being a person with interests will help your relationships to thrive. I fight this battle myself. Maybe you could carve out some time to take a class, a great way to meet people. You could talk to a community college counselor about possible careers that you might enjoy more. Exercise is a must for depression, but as the others said, don't feel you have to look different to meet someone. What the person will be attracted to is your personality, eg, the part that is uniquely you. Try to find a situation like a group that will allow you to show that to others.