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Originally Posted by starrysky
For anyone who'd been following my thread from before, about the guy I'd been seeing for 2 weeks (a month now) who wanted me to meet his family, we broke up. I broke up w/ him. But it was amicable. Just feeling sad, because I'm sensitive I guess. But yeah, when i first said it, and told him, I felt sad but relieved. I was scared too. I think because I DO want a boyfriend. And he was really...he fit a lot of good spots for me. But there were some things he would say in jest. That I didn't understand. I misunderstood him a lot and it made me feel like a freak. I was more serious than he was. Idk. I was just sick of feeling stressed and insecure. I think we were not compatible in very important ways to me.
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So sorry you are struggling with this. Breakups suck, but can lead to much better things. I tend to second guess myself when it comes to break ups, but please keep in mind the reasons why you did and the potential issues and patterns that did not jive with you that could have continued if you stayed....as well as not the right timing, if that was part of the issue too.
I believe most people have their good points, and any connection that we ever had with that person can make us ambivalent and worry if we made the right decision. Also, loneliness and stress can make us have doubts in our decision. However, something told you that you aren't compatible, so trust your gut. I'm sure there's someone out there that you will click even better with.