Thank you Peaches. I googled it when I first read your post and didn't find anything helpful. My time was limited though.

I also agree with you on how strong the protector part is with me too. Thinking of it now, my mind keeps going to "disorganized attachment" and betrayal blindness. Being able to fully trust someone and feel safe with someone has not been something I've known. My counselor seems to be the closest that I've come to feeling it. The protector maybe is a remnant of the two. ?

"the Protector feels obligated to monitor their every action to keep them safe."

That really speaks to me. I don't know what to do about it though.