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Originally Posted by ~Christina
I think what her father said to her is a very good thing. You can not control his discussions with his own child.
Okay so she's signed up for school that doesn't mean he can't still wish she would move in with him. He is allowed to have his own hopes and wishes.
As for him taking days off work ??? Again his choice. Are bills being paid? Food on the table? I can't remember if you work or not ??
If she will soon be in school the you need to figure out how to let this go. Sounds like she is making plans and your still in a panic, breath.
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Oh yeah the bills are being paid (as usual practically all by me), food is on the table because I do the grocery shopping, clothes are clean because I do the laundry and every other household chore, including mowing the yard, upkeep in the garden--which he just HAD to have, but does NOTHING with it! It was more just the idea of having a garden that he loved--upkeep and planting and harvesting, not so much.
So honestly in my mind, this house is pretty much mine even though both our names are on the paperwork so honestly I should be able to say who lives with us. Harsh, I know, but he doesn't do a damn thing to contribute. Nearly everything in our house is what I bought, I even bought his truck ($3200 which he didn't have to pay a penny of because he needed a vehicle). Honestly, the only thing I can think of right now that is actually something he bought in our house (only because he had it before he met me) is the futon, his computer desk and his computer. If he left this house tomorrow, that's all he'd get along with all his clothes!