I saw a therapist this morning. For the first time I felt validated. She said she was "baffled" about the way my therapist changed her boundaries in the middle of therapy. When I said that it was not therapeutic to punish me (by cancelling a session) she said "indeed" very firmly. It was not huge but it felt really good that the craziness of my T was being acknowledged. I left feeling much better which hadn't happened in a long time. Btw, I want to thank everybody who commented on my previous threads (therapists and their ego, and "it is your interpretation "). I'm sorry I didn't respond as I was feeling too bad but I read everything. Thank you. And now I feel a glimmer of hope after this morning. This therapist may not be the "one" but at least she validated me, which is better than other therapists ever did.