I was in a relationship for 2 years. Long story short, I grew unhappy, which always happens. I ended it, started seeing another person.

Things keep going on with the guy (BF), though. And he's certain another alter is "running the show" with this new guy. He says he's heard certain phrases indicating it's Rachel.

Rachel still waits for my ex-husband to come home. It's been 8 years, longer with all the years of fighting that went on. She still waits. BF thinks RACHEL thinks she's found a replacement, for the ex-H. The butterflies, the lifestyle, many characteristics. Right down to the narcissism, but Rachel doesn't care because she knows that stuff.

Sometimes when I'm on a date with the new guy, I see another person, ex. Especially if we are drinking. I have to look away, then look back.

I've made a huge mess and with this new news, it feels even bigger of a mess.

...how do i know if "I" wanted this or if Rachel really is doing this?/??