Good people are difficult to find. It's just unfortunate that the bad people treat the good so badly. Whether a person finds their special someone or not, each person always has theirself. I have been a loner most of my life, but I still keep going. Being comfortable with yourself is very important. Needing a special someone is not the way. Wanting someone to be with is best. Ennui, each person is worth the time of someone special. It is just harder to find the right someone. I've begun to see this myself. I'm in my 40's and still haven't found her yet. I hope I will someday. Till then, I've always got myself just as you have yourself.