I'm sorry you feel this way. But it's understandable given all the horror stories we see on this forum. I can't exactly tell you that my T hasn't changed because well she HAS. She went from being caring and compassionate to being punitive and righteous. I think she also reached her limit as I'm not exactly an easy client. But there are therapists who don't change, there are therapists who practice self-care and don't suffer compassion fatigue. Your therapist may be one of those, I hope she is. Can you ask her perhaps?