I have to accept that I am at risk, but I could be at risk with any man I became involved with. In this instance I am very aware of what to look for, and I wasn't writing about my concerns about him. I have other issues I consider a lot more immediate. We don't live together, cos it's way to early.we see each other once a week. With occasional weekends together. My concern at this time was to ensure I am taking responsibility for my actions, and my behaviour.

@~Christina (sorry havnt figured out multipul quote thingies) I am also a rape survivor. Long long time ago now. Have had many healthy relationships since. My best wishes to you, I hope things are moving on now.