I ended with T1 due to a number of boundary issues. One of them was inconsistent and changeable appointments. Pretty much all his boundaries were inconsistent, from self disclosure to out of session contact. It was a complete mind****.
I couldn't bring myself to leave so I took a "break" and met with another T. I realised after about 2 months of seeing T2 (at the same time every week) what a healthy therapeutic relationship was supposed to look like and told T1 I wouldn't be returning (I had a goodbye session with him).
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