So now, a week later, not are we only having those two over, but he has now invited 4 other people...all without a word to me until after he invited them!!! Another coworker and girlfriend that he told me he asked earlier but he said they were probably doing something else but when she came into his work last weekend he convinced them to come. Then last night as an aside he told me that he invited another coworker, who I have never met, and his uncle over. This guy is 22 and his uncle is only a year or two older. So we are having 4 early to mid 20s people over, when we are in our mid to late 40s and then a guy who's our age and his mentally handicapped teenage daughter! Well doesn't that sound like the best Thanksgiving ever! Most likely all the 20 something's just want to get drunk. Oh and he tells me, not asks me, "you're going to make the green bean casserole". Well if I said no he'd throw a fit about "Jeez what's the big deal?"

I wonder what he would think if I told him tomorrow that I invited over half my dept from work on Saturday night and that I'm going to need him to help me entertain them when all he wants to do is sit around and play his video game?! And then say "You're cool with that, right?" as he always assumes I am when he does stuff like that!