I was on one of the dating sites, I am a member of and this guy messages me, he's 39, him and I have a lot in common, so we exchange numbers, and he texts me, and I respond, sending him a photo of myself, of how I was looking right then and there, light in my room wasn't that great, but I wanted to prove to him I was real and not catfishing him or anything. I then sent him some other photos of myself I had taken a few hours earlier during the day time. I told him my name was Natalie.









When it came down to his response to my photos he had said this

"That's not you. Is your real name Nate or something? Is this a joke?"

He had then said " I may be a jerk at times but I'm not a dirt bag so you don't have to prove anything. Those pics aren't the same person. And if I'm gonna have to be a jerk please don't make me feel like an asshole. Sorry I wasted your time."

Hearing this from a 39 year old man hurt, I thought maybe as old as he was he would be mature and respectful but nope. As far as me and my looks and my photos, I don't know what to do, but every time I talk to someone new, the guy always has to go and say how I look like a man.

I just want it to stop but it keeps happening. I really don't know what to do here.