Thanks for all the help! Yes, I do feel I am being gaslighted. No, wait -- I AM being gaslighted, I'm just not sure to what degree. It pretty much started in the beginning of October. There have been obvious instances of her gaslighting me, and I believe this to be one of several: http://forums.psychcentral.com/psych...m-i-wrong.html . As for my inquiry about subtle gaslight's, I was just wondering about the little, not so obvious things, because there are a lot of little things being done that are adding into this larger, suspicious picture. Could be gaslighting, could be some other reason for the changes.

Nothing makes sense anymore. I do question everything t does of late and it is making me unbelievably crazy. There is more giving, and more taking away. This whole thing has become a total mind f--k. Maybe it's all just me. Maybe I've regressed beyond to where I started with being hyper vigilant. Or maybe I'm waking up to reality.