In the upper photos there are shadows in the photo which makes it appear you have facial hair. In the third picture I'm drawn to your smile. It's nice but could be improved upon even more. I know dental work is expensive but I think it would greatly benefit your self esteem and responses to consider a little work on the 2 front teeth. The last photo which appears to be s more candid shot seems your best. On your face I would keep the makeup natural. Some guys will be attracted to you some will not. Some will say some rude things and some won't. The ones who won't are the only ones worth meeting so you can consider them effectively screened. 39 year olds are'nt really old. Some men are hardly different than teenagers well into their 80's. Some women like myself still play with dolls in their 40's (expensive dolls but dolls none the less)

I'm sorry you were treated so bad. Next time use direct lighting on your face. From a lamp or preferably natural lighting. The 3rd photo is a bit more flattering and with less shadowing. Maybe a selfie stick would help so you can get pics of your girly figure.