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Nov 16, 2016, 07:37 PM
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Okay, your family sounds very toxic for one, and I understand why your fiance does not want to play nice. But there need to be some boundaries. It's okay for him to not like your family, they have treated him very poorly. But he should at least be able to get through very occasional visits with them without letting them get to him. And tell him just to unfriend them on Facebook. In a way, this comes down to self control. He needs to just not communicate with them on Facebook, and learn how to be polite and unemotional during occasional visits.
That's just how I see it if he really does want to marry you.
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Meds I've tried: Prozac, Zoloft, Celexa, Effexor, Remeron, Elavil, Wellbutrin, Risperidone, Abilify, Prazosin, Paxil, Trazadone, Tramadol, Topomax, Xanax, Propranolol, Valium, Visteril, Vraylar, Selinor, Clonopin, Ambien
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