It's all about personal choice. I think OP has much bigger issues than who to give her virginity to.

I would warn though, not finding out what someone is into sexually before you get married could turn into an even bigger issue. You might wait for that special night only to discover you just are not compatible in that way. Then what, divorce?
Are you sure it's a partner your really looking for?
Also what about the guys, you want to wait. Do you mind if they do. I mean do you care if they are virgins or not?
Apologies if these questions have already been answered I wasn't able to read through all the replies.