housework? oh, i don't do much of that. i don't really have a lot else i could give up.

i don't think it should be in our minds all the time. i don't know where that perception comes from... can anyone point me to something that supports this? i know it is on a lot of people's minds, but i just don't think it needs to be, and definitely not to this degree.. i'm open to understand this better if there is something out there to help me.

i don't mean to offend anyone.. i am just questioning and trying to figure out what to do.

perna.. i'm a little unsure what you mean? can you clarify? forgive me, i'm a little frazzled