Relationships can be difficult, even for some of us "seasoned veterans"!

I'm no therapist, but to me, she sounds like she's going though some stuff that has nothing to do with you. Try not to take it personally, ok? It's really not you. It sounds like the relationship is just not working for what ever reason. It's nobody's fault.

I did that to a boyfriend once. We flirted like hell for a while, and then when we became a couple, I literally didn't say much to him at all! I didn't say anything because I was scared to tell him that I didn't know how to be in a relationship because of my own many issues. Needless to say, the relationship ended rather quickly!

Here's a bit of advice that is universal. Do you know anything about the law of attraction? It's powerful stuff! You make a "T" shaped chart. On the left side, you put the qualities you don't want in a partner. Eg, agressive, boring, tall, unhealthy, stinky......
Then on the right side, beside the thing you don't want, you put the thing you do want. Eg, beside aggressive you put gentle, beside boring, you could put adventurous, beside stinky you could put practices good hygene........

Obviously, you could make a huge list, but this was just an example. When you put an example on the right side about what you do want, you cross off the thing you don't want on the left side. It's a really good brain exercise that helps you to reaffirm what it is that YOU want, and helps make it a bit easier to weed out the stuff that you don't want a lot quicker.

Sometimes relationships don't work out, even though you've convinced yourself that if you try the hardest you've ever tried, you can make it work. It really sucks, and so does the heart break that comes along with it!

My hope for you is that if the relationship ends before it's to late, that you can go back to being friends. It does happen, if both parties are mature enough to realize it!