Oh wow. Myrto - I am so, so sorry. You have every right to be upset, hurt, angry, and whatever else you're feeling.

That is such incredibly bad behavior on the part of your therapist. Heck, "breaking up" by ignoring somebody, and then finally telling them that it's over via email would be disrespectful and immature behavior in ANY relationship, but 1000 times so in a therapeutic one.

I am so sorry, and I wish there were something I/we could do to make it easier and help ease the pain.

Lots of hugs, if you're OK with them. And, virtual chocolate.

I think you said that the new T knew about the old T's bad behaviors (because new T was validating you in this situation, right?). Can you get in to see new T soon? Do you think that having someone to talk to in-person will help you process some of this? It sounds like new T will understand the situation (and I'm SURE she'll validate you in this, as your old T is so incredibly off-base with her behaviors).

*hugs* Hang in there...