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Originally Posted by avlady
everyone in my high school voted me as the nicest person in my class. if they only knew of my dark side they would have my head, so to speak. ive learned to speak up for years now and they would never know who i am today. i like being nice but got walked all over, which was my own fault i'll admit.
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I'm pretty nice and get walked on but I stand up for myself which I didn't used to do. If we are nice and get trampled,it's not our fault.....it's the fault of the person who mistook kindness for stupidity and doormat status. I refuse to be stupid or a doormat these days but I still place blame where it's deserved when people try to guilt or walk on me. (((Hugs)))
To the OP, I agree with all you've written. (((Hugs)))