According to him it's not the same if he can't come inside me without a condom. I don't think wearing a condom is too much to ask, given what could happen if he didn't. It's just being safe in my opinion, and I think you're right, if he was the one who could get pregnant he would be more careful. It's interesting that your boyfriend has no problem with wearing one, I've heard men say it's not the same but most would wear one if their partner asked. He's been pressuring me to go back on the Pill before my period, which made me ill before. However I won't drone on about it here as I have another thread on it, this one is about condom wearing preferences.

Thank you for your reply.