I have bipolar, and it has been a source of tension in my marriage since my diagnosis. His biggest complaint is that I don't do enough of my therapy homework. Somewhat founded. Well he is on a business trip this week, and we have been talking during my lunchtime everyday (he is in Thailand). Things were fine until we talked today and he said "oh, me and the other guy went out for a beer and we ended up at this strip club and then these girls started making out with us!" His (and MY) boss was there, and he just walked away saying he did not want to get involved. So obviously this went on for quite some time.
I feel cheated on, but at the same time I wonder if I am being over dramatic. The thing that bugs me is he said he did it because he was acting out because he had been hurting in our relationship. I don't want to completely dismiss what he is saying, but part of me thinks that's an awfully convenient excuse!
Help!