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Originally Posted by SparkCat
I'm not against being gay bi etc, but I do want to know what I am.
And wether I think I'm something... or not.. because of the abuse..
And what is me, what would I be without any experiences confusing stuff.
I'm not sure if I want to go to a therapist or psychologist but maybe i should sometime..
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You know, SparkCat... the thing is... all of this may just work itself out naturally over time. Personally, I would say don't get any more caught up in this than is really necessary. It is certainly possible to get really ensnared by it all.
But if, as time goes by, you find that your sexual orientation is still troublesome for you, then certainly seek the services of a skilled therapist. You mentioned having been sexually abused by several men. Regardless of whether or not that is the reason for you present confusion, it is something that has to leave scars. That, in & of itself, is reason enough to seek therapy.
By the way, I don't know if I've mentioned this to you previously. (I bring it up a lot.)
But are you familiar with Kati Morton's video's on YouTube? If not, you might check them out. I imagine you would find some of them to be most helpful.
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCzB...zlkRdDOSobbpvw