I'm not Christian, but I am religious ^^, so I'll try my best to help ya out! You don't need to feel bad about going to church just because you're trans, and your husband is right, too. You don't have to worry about this so hard. Good ol' God is still going to love you no matter what. Also, you can't help being trans because that's who you've been right from the womb, so why would you be hated for it?