First and foremost, I'm sorry to hear you're not being treated very well by so many guys. Rejection like that blows.

Second, I understand and appreciate wanting to keep it simple, not having the money or time, and finding somebody who accepts you for who you are but the reality of the matter - based on what you've shared - is what you're currently doing isn't working.

I found the makeover idea to be a really good suggestion and your refusal - one that struck me as a little OVERLY OBSTINATE for somebody who is looking for advice on how to change the current narrative in which she finds herself - is suspect. It makes me wonder if there are any other reasons - aside from cost and time - you so quickly shot down the idea.

The fact of the matter is you have one good picture and three REALLY, REALLY UNFLATTERING ones. Which one is your main picture? Is it safe to assume it's the last one?