Hey stole,

Taking a little time to feel more confident is important. I am really sorry you continue to struggle. Taking more time to follow the really good advice you get getting here will pay off for you in a new romance, which is one of life's biggest rewards.

If you are short on time, please help us understand what occupies your time. If you are doing activities in a social setting, this might be a better way to get dates and romantic prospects.

We're really rooting for you and hoping that you are receptive to honest feedback and are really seeking advice and input, rather that just sympathy and listening.

Good luck!

moogs