Thanks. The relationship I was in before was the polar opposite. The guy wanted sex all the time and I didn't. I hated feeling pressure so I'm really trying not to do that in my current relationship. And yes, he's feeling very inadequate, so I feel bad that I brought it up to him, but he said its good that I'm being honest.

Its just such a switch for me, to enjoy sex for the first time ever, and do be in love and in a real adult relationship. Its just another part of growing up that I've gotta get used to.

Thanks everyone so much for your input. I know the "heat" tends to change from the way it is in a new relationship to how it grows and matures, so I'm trying not to freak out too much.