I am old fashioned, and have always been told, to let the guy chase you, let him make the first move, let him call you first, text you first, message you first, open the door for you, pay for the meal, bring you flowers and candy etc. The old school way of dating.

I have stuck by this formula and have had some guys do this type of thing, but lately I noticed I would always have to do the chasing, and always be the one to make the first move, and then always be the one to make that move from then on.

And when I would become the chaser the guy wouldn't be interested. I know in today's society, things aren't old school way, and equal rights, and this and that thing.

But if I have to be the one to always do the chasing isn't that bad?