I was seeing a guy earlier on this year and hooked up with him again recently (against my better judgement). I came off the Pill last month because I didn't think anything was happening and didn't see it going anywhere. He came up last week again and used a condom, and was of course annoyed that I came off the Pill. Probably I should have stayed on the Pill or not let him back in my life. He says using condoms feels weird when he comes and won't wear one. He has pressured me to go back on the Pill before my period even after I told him I got stomach cramps and felt sick the last time I took it early. He was coming over tonight and has called off because I wouldn't agree to him coming inside me (with no protection). I told him I wasn't on the Pill at the start of the conversation and never agreed during it to have unprotected sex. He then said it was screwing with his head. He directed the conversation in a dirty direction. I told him several times I didn't want to have unprotected sex. He made me feel bad to not agreeing to it. I'm 41. But I can't risk getting pregnant. Should I be feeling guilty for this? He isn't willing to use protection for me and expects me to chance getting pregnant. Am I a ***** for turning him down?