Mapper, I've read every thread about your husband, and while I still for the life of me can't fathom why you are married to a man you clearly cant stand, I understand your need to vent.
I do however think your time is much better spent in marriage counseling, as it can lead to a resolution, as opposed to thread after thread of venting and stagnation.

PS. Since you didn't set a firm boundary WRT what you will and will not accept for TG, I also suggest you make peace with the situation, make the best of it and at least attempt to not have a miserable day.