My T only tells me if it will affect my appointment. I dared to ask last time where she was going and got the one word name of the state and that was it. I told her at the next session that it really bothered me how she was so abrupt and short with her answer and that she should have said, "I'm going to X and really looking forward it" so that it sounds more friendly and so that I don't feel like an idiot for asking. I just think that it's human nature if someone says that they'll be away asking where they're going...