so my boyfriend quit smoking pot a couple months before he met me which was over 2 years ago. i have smoked (cigs) since i was 14. quit few times, started back up. now i only smoke at work because i get so amazingly stressed and cant find something to ease it that moment. but a pack will last me 2 weeks so its hardly anything.

anyways, my dad smokes pot like everyday and is also a "functional" alcoholic. and for some reason if i try and picture my boyfriend smoking pot it bothers the hell out of me and i dont know why. i assumed it because of my dad but my boyfriend isnt anything like my father and i know he wouldnt start doing it all the time but i just cant get past the feeling i get when i picture him smoking. i know it shouldnt bother me if he does it once in a blue moon especially because he is okay with me smoking at work.

any ideas on how to get over this? or does anyone else have this innate fear of drugs?

p.s. he has never and never would do any hard drugs like cocain, heroine etc.... him and i have the same feelings on drugs like that so it wouldnt even be a gateway drug issue.