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Old Nov 18, 2016, 08:33 PM
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Originally Posted by Shadix View Post
Yes my interactions are very clumsy, but probably not what you are thinking. I don't have a problem with boundries and I don't give anyone the impression I am "using" them. My work friends I am talking about actually think I am one of the nicest people they know. And that is probably why they feel compelled to include me and be nice to me. The problem is, "nice" and "thoughtful" are not qualities that people actually admire or value. Especially in males. The males who are valued are always the witty, charismatic ones.
You are very wrong. Nice and thoughtful men are very much admired. Witty and charismatic are admired as well. There is no universal rule on what type of people are admired. Everyone is different and everyone finds different things admirable
Thanks for this!
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