(((((((Darke))))))

You are hurt and angry and that is completely understandable. Sabby is a great friend and confidante and i can see looking in on this thread that she meant no harm. I was looking for attention on the internet (flirting) purely because I thought my
husband would rather watch porn and I felt unattractive, invisible, we weren't communicating and he didn't know how to help me. All of the above problems (apart from him using porn) where my low self esteem , no confidence and just feeling utterly deflated and unnoticed. I amnot saying you do any of the above in any way shape or form, I just want to explain why I was seeking male attention (my hubby thought I was more than flirting)It is my problem and the fact that I wanted him to be demonstrative and smothering me in affection which is not his nature.
We talked and sorted things although we are not perfect by any means yet, our relationship has improved.
Please try to talk to her, I feel your pain, you can pm me anytime if you want to. My hubby has cheated on me 18 months after marriage so I see both points of view I suppose.

Jinnyann xxx hugs