We laugh sometimes, and I like that. It feels like a shared experience.
Take this for what it's worth (and I only do this because you're a therapist): It does seem that you present things to us that you don't like about your therapist quite often and then say you know that people here don't like her, so it's a bit of a set up to do that. Many of us feel this way when that's what's being presented most of the time. Maybe it would help to pull all of that back to yourself and see how much is about you and how much is about her without saying, "I know many of you don't like her?" Because if I initiate laughter with my therapist by telling something painful in a light way, and my therapist's laughter upsets me, that's about me and what I'm trying to get from her by doing it that way.
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