Rhapsody, I wish you much strength. I found the hardest part for me in the separation and divorce, at first, was waiting for the ball to drop. Once my husband requested a separation, it was almost a relief because I could see it coming. It was easier for me, emotionally, because my family wanted me to be free of him. If the family supports the marriage, it can be tougher being seen as the one that ended it. I admire your courage and I hope you find the support to help you through it.

I was lucky. The first lawyer I had, taught me everything about my rights and the legal system. He fully supported me in my goals and he even fought for me to get more than I wished for. When I moved, the next lawyer was simply procedural and no compassion, no effort for me, as his client. Good luck with your lawyer and the legal system.

Lori