I still say saving one's virginity until the wedding night is a huge mistake. You really need to know if you're sexually compatible or not. What if the guy has a kink that you discover on that night that is majorly disturbing to you? Something so disturbing that you find him repulsive because of it?

Yeah, it's much better for the relationship to NOT wait until that night to avoid just such a situation. Besides, it's not really worth waiting anyways. You just have to find a special way to lose it is all. I gave up my V-Card to my first boyfriend when we spent a vacation at the beach. It was fun and special too.