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Originally Posted by icecappe
The one thing I can think of is that I was bullied physically and mentally quite a lot in middle and elementary school. This made me less open to people in general. I do not know why that would affect my current relationship, I do not even move away consciously.
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I think what you mentioned [above] could be the cause. Being bullied can lead to feelings of mistrust see, so maybe without even realizing it you believe your girlfriend [people] might wish to hurt you, and so unconsciously you begin to move away. I'm just guessing, but that's what I think it could be.